Sunday, January 22, 2012

Matthew 18

One of the biggest policies at Faith Academy is following the framework of Matthew 18. I learned from John a long time ago the gist about Matthew 18-- basically it's about how to handle confrontation with our brothers and sisters in Christ. But now that I'm working somewhere that stresses it so much, I thought I should dig a little deeper to ensure I can hold myself accountable to what is now expected of me.


"If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector." 
Matthew 18:15-17

Sounds simple enough, right? Someone upsets you, you go straight to them. If that doesn't work, take back-up. Still not working, present it before the authority. The problem is, I think all too often we try to embellish this. Here are the things that come to mind when I think about how this can be twisted. (Just to be clear, the bold part is Biblical-- the italicized part is what tends to become the embellishment).

1. If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, unless you're just so mad that you can't even look at them or after you've vented to everyone else you know.
We aren't called to confront our brother only if it's a small offense that can be easily managed. That is our command no matter what. No matter how big, dirty, or complicated the problem may be, our first duty is to try and keep it between our offender and ourselves.

2. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, but only if they're on your side. 
I think far too often people jump headfirst into this step, but instead of using it as an opportunity to pull in a neutral outside observer who can make a clear judgement, they use it as an excuse to pull in their bff and gang up on the offender. That's not called reconciliation; that's called bullying. 

3. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to anyone and everyone and slander his name.
While it is true the Bible says to take them to church, it's not intended to destroy them. It is still in the hope of redemption! The hope is that they will see the wisdom in the church's judgement and be grateful that so many people want to help them solve the problem. Hopefully most confrontations will not have to be taken to this point.

I think one of the main things to keep in mind is that "confront" does not equal "attack." It takes two to tango. Approach your offender with an honest spirit, willing to take responsibility and own what you may have done to set them off in the first place. Matthew 18 focuses on resolving conflict-- not being right. I'm hoping I will be able to keep this in the forefront of my mind and graciously put it into practice if need be. I love having a job that encourages me to think about these things and dig deeper into the Word. :]

Monday, January 16, 2012

Erica's Adventures in Teaching

I realized I have yet to make a post as an official teacher! I don't think I've ever even posted that I got a job! So, here's the down low on what is now consuming my life.

I got hired at Faith Academy (the same school John teaches at :] ) as a long-term sub. They had a teacher leave at semester to have a baby, so it's been perfect for me to ease right in. The teacher I'm filling in for is amazing. Her organization makes everything so easy and manageable, and she already had most of the lesson plans done from when she taught these classes last year. It has been the biggest blessing to go into my first year of teaching and already have the hard stuff done for me! I already feel much more confident that I will know exactly what to do whenever I have my own classroom and have to start from scratch.

I am teaching 3rd, 4th, and 5th grade Spelling and History, 3rd grade Science, and 5th grade Bible (my husband and I are both Bible teachers... who would've guessed?!). I really love the kids, but it was a huuuuuge adjustment after student teaching with 7th, 10th, and 11th graders! Some days I think I'll die if I don't superglue my 3rd graders' bottoms to their seats, but within the minute they're doing something totally adorable and I just want to hug them. :]

Besides the sweet kids, I have plenty of help to get me through the day. Of course I have John down the hall, but I actually teach right next door to his aunt! That poor lady-- I am in her room all the time asking questions, but she has been so great and patient. I just feel so blessed to have someone I know and am comfortable with to help me out! The rest of the staff has been really nice and welcoming, too. I have to admit I am exhausted and dread getting up every morning, but I am so happy to report it's always worth it when I get there. :] I feel very blessed to be able to say that about my job!

The Truth About My Quest to Declutter My House...

As you might recall, I made this post at the beginning of the month about following a decluttering calendar. Now, I would be a bold faced liar if I told you that I had done each task on its assigned day. But, by playing a little catch up on the weekends, I can successfully say I have done all of the 16 tasks I've been assigned except 3! Honestly, I'm quite proud of myself. That's way better than I was expecting. The ones I've been stuck on are "Throw out the junk in your junk drawer" (notice singular drawer) and "Organize your junk drawer" (once again... singular). Now, this wouldn't be such an issue if it weren't for the fact that basically every drawer in my house is a junk drawer. I think I may just need to devote a whole weekend to organizing ALL my drawers.

My favorite task by far has been setting up a donation station. I am a notorious stacker-- stacks of things to give to friends/family members, things to return to stores, things to recycle... you get the idea. So, this idea has worked PERFECTLY for me! I will say I didn't follow the blueprint exactly. I just grabbed a few stackable crates and storage tubs and shoved it in the pantry. But the point is, it's not stacked all over my house! :]

How are you sticking to your goals for 2012?

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Top 5 Recipes of 2011

After becoming a wife, 2011 turned out to be a pretty good cooking year for me. It was kind of tough for me to get started. We rarely tend to actually have any food on hand, and I HATE going to the grocery store, so it always seemed like a huge job just to make a meal for two. Midway through last semester I started planning our menu for the whole week and making one store run on Monday, and that made a HUGE difference. I realized I don't really mind cooking as long as I'm prepared! Here are my top 5 favorite recipes from this year.

#5- Classic Chicken Enchiladas [Real Simple]
If you already have a favorite chicken enchilada recipe, I would probably stick to that. However, if you're like me and don't know anything about cooking but want something quick and easy, this one is a keeper. I made it for our small group and friends a few times, and it was always a huge success.

Ingredients:
Rotisserie chicken
1 & 1/2 cups grated sharp Cheddar cheese
8 6-inch corn tortillas
2 & 1/2 cups (2 cans) canned enchilada sauce
1/4 cup fresh cilantro leaves (optional)
Directions:
1. Heat oven to 400 F.
2. In a medium bowl, toss the chicken with 1 cup of the Cheddar. Dividing evenly, roll up the chicken mixture in the tortillas and place seam-down in an 8-inch square baking dish.
3. Top with enchilada sauce and the remaining 1/2 cup of Cheddar.
4. Bake for 15-20 minutes. Sprinkle with cilantro, if desired. (I always forgot the cilantro, but it still turned out great!).

#4- Red Velvet Cake [Real Simple]
This is the only "grown-up" dessert I think I've made since we've been married, so I'm kind of proud of it. ;]

Ingredients:
1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter, plus more for pans
2 cups flour, spooned and leveled, plus more for pans
1/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
1 & 1/2 cups sugar
2 large eggs
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
2 teaspoons apple cider vinegar
1 tablespoon red food coloring
1 cup buttermilk
1 tub cream cheese frosting
Directions:
1. Heat oven to 350 F. Butter two 8-inch round cake pans and dust with flour, tapping out the excess. In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour, cocoa, baking soda, and salt. Set aside.
2. Using an electric mixer, beat the butter and sugar on medium-high until fluffy, 2 or 3 minutes. Beat in the eggs, vanilla, vinegar, and food coloring until incorporated, scraping down the sides of the bowl as necessary.
3. Reduce mixer speed to low. Add the flour mixture in 3 additions and the buttermilk in 2 additions, beginning and ending with the flour mixture. Mix until just combined (do not overmix).
4. Divide the batter between the prepared pans and bake until a toothpick comes out clean, 40 to 45 minutes. Cool the cakes in the pans for 15 minutes, then turn out onto racks to cool completely.
5. Transfer one of the cooled cakes to a plate and spread with frosting. Top with the remaining cake and spread frosting over the top and sides. Refrigerate for 30 minutes before serving.

#3- Creamy Italian Chicken [Steph Cease]
This is a recipe one of my very best friends passed on to me when I used to live in her garage apartment a few years ago. I have made it many, many times, and it is always SOOOOOOO delicious! (One of our friends literally drank the leftover sauce once). I love it because it's so easy. Literally toss all the ingredients in a crock pot, give it a little stir, and done! :]

Ingredients:
4 chicken breasts
2 teaspoons butter
1 package Italian Seasonings dressing mix
1 can Cream of Chicken Soup (I use low-fat)
1 8 oz. package cream cheese (I use low-fat)
Directions:
Put chicken, butter, and dressing mix in your crock pot on high heat for 2 hours. Add the soup and cream cheese. Cook for 30 more minutes. Give it a stir and done!

#2- Spaghetti Carbonara [Stonewall Kitchen Favorites]
I made this recipe for the first time last week, and John has been begging me to make it ever since! A few of our friends have gotten to try it as well, and they've all asked me for the recipe (here you go, guys!).

Ingredients:
8 ounces thick-sliced pancetta or bacon (I always use bacon)
Salt
1 pound spaghetti or linguine
2 large organic eggs
1 & 3/4 cups freshly grated Parmesan cheese
1/4 cup heavy cream
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
1 & 1/2 cups packed fresh basil leaves
1/2 cup olive oil
Directions:
1. Heat a large, heavy skillet over moderately low heat. Cook the bacon until crispy. Drain on paper towels, then coarsely chop.
2. Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. Add pasta and cook until al dente according to package directions, 10 to 12 minutes. Drain well in a colander.
3. In a food processor or blender, blend the basil until coarsely chopped. Slowly add the oil and process until the mixture is thick and chunky. Season with salt and pepper to taste. *[My food processor hasn't been working properly, so I've just been chopping up the basil and stirring it with a little oil].
4. In a large serving bowl, whisk the eggs, 1 & 1/4 cups of the Parmesan cheese, and the cream. Season with salt and pepper. Add the bacon, hot pasta, basil mix, and toss.

#1- Banana Bread [Real Simple]
This has without a doubt been my most used recipe. I am super picky about my bananas-- seriously, if they have any brown spots, they gross me out. SO, this recipe has definitely come in handy for not letting all my brown bananas go to waste!

Ingredients:
1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, melted and cooled
1 & 1/2 cups flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
1/4 teaspoon baking soda
3 ripe bananas, mashed
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup light brown sugar
2 large eggs
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
Directions:
1. Heat oven to 350 F. Butter a loaf pan. In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder, salt, and baking soda.
2. In a large bowl, mix together the butter, bananas, granulated and light brown sugars, eggs, and vanilla. Add the flour mixture and mix until just combined (do not overmix).
3. Spread the butter in the prepared pan and bake until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean, 50 to 60 minutes. Cool for 15 minutes.

What are some of your favorite (and easiest) recipes?

Sunday, January 1, 2012

A Log From 2011 & a Goal for 2012

First and foremost, can I get a drum roll, please? Because here is my 2011 book log!

Black Potatoes: The Story of the Great Irish Famine- Susan Campbell Batoletti


The Picture of Dorian Gray- Oscar Wilde


The Fruit of Her Hands- Nancy Wilson

Water for Elephants- Sarah Gruen
I loved this book AND the movie!


Falling Fast- Lucy Kevin

Weddings Can Be Murder- Christie Craig

Leaving- Karen Kingsbury

Forgotten God- Francis Chan

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Magician's Nephew- C.S. Lewis

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe- C.S. Lewis

Learning- Karen Kingsbury

Fablehaven- Brandon Mull

Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry- Mildred Taylor
I read this with my 7th graders for student teaching. Somehow I had gotten through public school without reading it, but I'm glad I got the chance! It was very good. The kids loved it, even though it was hard for them to understand why things used to be that way.


Fahrenheit 451- Ray Bradbury

The Crucible- Arthur Miller

Heaven is For Real- Todd Burpo

The Giver- Lois Lowry

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Horse and His Boy- C.S. Lewis

Dead Until Dark- Charlaine Harris

Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief- Rick Riordan

Huckleberry Finn- Mark Twain

Cold Sassy Tree- Olive Ann Burns
I read this with my sophomore English II class during student teaching and ended up really liking it! Some parts literally had me laughing out loud! It was a really good story. I recommend it!


Sisterhood Everlasting- Anne Brashares


The Chronicles of Narnia: Prince Caspian- C.S. Lewis

Longing- Karen Kingsbury

The Chronicles of Narnia: Voyage of the Dawn Treader- C.S. Lewis

Sheet Music- Dr. Kevin Leman

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Silver Chair- C.S. Lewis

It was my goal to finish The Chronicles of Narnia before the end of the year, but I still had about 100 pages left in the last book when I got summoned to a New Years Eve party. Shoot. I have thoroughly enjoyed them though! They're so witty and beautiful, and the characters' names make me giggle (Trumpkin? Puddleglum? Come on! Tell me that doesn't put a smile on your face).

All right, now that 2011 is behind us, let's look forward to 2012! Thanks to the lovely life sucker that we fondly know as Pinterest, I found this super awesome and easy decluttering calendar! Now, I am usually very anti all these quick fix, "3 weeks to a spotless house" schemes, but this one seems totally do-able! It's a month by month calendar for the whole year, and every day has a different manageable task on it (for example, go through spices and discard expired ones, clean off the top of the night stand, dust the tops of the cabinets, etc.). My favorite part is that Sunday is even honored as somewhat of a Sabbath. The Sunday tasks are either things to think about or fun things, like dancing in the living room or taking a nap! There's nothing like the promise of post-productivity laziness to get one motivated. ;]

What are your goals and resolutions for 2012?

2011 in 11 Words Or Less

But twice as many pictures. Thank goodness they're worth 1,000 words! ;]

























Friday, August 12, 2011

They're Here, They're Here!

While John and I are still waiting for the disc with all of our wedding pictures, the online gallery is up! Check it out here. Our photographer also does a blog post from each wedding she shoots, so go here to just see some of the highlights.

John and I both started inservice this week and are both very excited to be working with our respective teams this semester. I can tell it's going to hard being apart for most of the day though, especially with his commute and me having practice every day until 5. It will be an interesting season... we would greatly appreciate your prayers!

I've been working on a few long blog posts. Hopefully I'll finish them up soon and yall will actually have something worthwhile to read. :]